Ima be honest I always thought the be more aggressive was psychological jujitsu. Because what can be seen as traditional masculinity in her eyes can be manipulated into making you appear abusive.
I always despised this idea of having to be a buck to prove our manhood but when that posturing cost us our lives they’ll say black men need therapy.
Being more assertive is one thing, but black men being told more aggressive from my experience is a trap.
by Christopher Marshall